My September Goals

Goals for September

Recently, I have been finding ways to try to organise my life slightly. (Notice the use of the word “slightly”, as I think it would be impossible for me to ever be completely organised. I lost that right when I had children.) One thing I have always found helpful, though, is writing things down. One of the reasons I started this blog actually. I am a list maker. Lists for food shopping, going on holiday, housework etc. Over the last few months I have started writing down my goals for the forthcoming month. I thought I would share my September goals with you for two reasons: I like sharing things and if I have told you what my goals are, I think I will be more likely to stick to them.

I always think September is an exciting month. To me it is like January (but without the Christmas debt). I think it has come from back in the day and being at school. The start of a new school year, new books and a fresh start with the idea of working harder that year. (See, I started with good intentions Mum and Dad!)

I am also a fan of the change in season. While I do love the summer, I always find myself feeling disappointed with it. The excitement of getting out my summer wardrobe is short lived when it is still cold and rains every other day. We always make plans for BBQ’s and days at the beach but unless you hit lucky, you end up with soggy sandwiches and so many layers on it may as well be Autumn.

So I embrace September as it means the start of cosy nights. Warm comfy clothes that hide my “mum tum” and boots that hide my cracked heels. Comfort food and that Autumnal smell. I could go on listing what I love about it but I think I am just putting off listing my goals, so here goes:

Goal #1 Find a job

Yes I realise this is a pretty big one to be starting with. But with the end of summer comes the realisation I now have no income. My maternity leave is up and as I am not returning to my previous job, I need to find something.

The thing is I feel lost when it comes to the employment world. I have been self employed for two and a half years and to be honest I don’t want to return to working for an employer. Not because I am lazy and unwilling to contribute. (On the contrary, I want to take the financial pressure off my husband.) But because I want to be at home with my children. I want to be there raising them. Be there for the school run and the toddler groups. So I need to sit down and really think about what is going to work for us as a family. A biggie I know but it needs addressing.

Goal #2 Organise Phoebe’s Christening

I know who the Godparents are going to be. We have a date in mind. So now I just need to get the ball rolling and get it organised. She is turning One in November (that will be October’s goal: organise party) and we want to have it before then. Surprisingly I was more organised for Charlie’s as he was Christened at just three months old. Maybe this is how it will be for Phoebe, second child problems and all.

Goal #3 Smarten myself up

My wardrobe definitely needs an overhaul but as previously mentioned money is currently tight. So I shall approach this in a sensible way and look at what clothes I already have and see if I can make something of that.

As it is the turn of the season I possibly could start the change over from summer to winter wardrobe? Or is that too soon? Hmm I shall have to let you know how that one goes while on a budget.

One thing I am going to do though is get up a bit earlier in the morning (yikes) and spend time getting myself ready. Too many times I run out of time in the morning, so my hair is usually thrown into a messy bun and I end up unhappy with it all day. I have just started reading the FlyLady which is currently giving me inspiration to take better care of myself.

Goal #4 Keep up the blog

In the past I have found it hard keeping up a hobby but this is one I am determined to stick to. Why? Because I am getting so much enjoyment from writing, creating and sharing and I finally have found something I am good at. Or at least hope I am. It is important we all have something that is for “us”. Something to look forward to doing. An escape if you like. My blog is becoming mine and I hope I get to keep it up for a very long time.

Well, there are my September goals. On reflection they are quite big ones, but all achievable. So I shall report back and let you know how I got on.

Do you find it helpful setting goals?

What is your favourite thing about Autumn?

Leave me a comment down below to share your thoughts!

Thank you for reading.

XXX

 

Previous Post Next Post

4 Comments

  • Reply Alice

    Loved reading this, Beth 🙂
    I feel like setting big goals is a positive thing as it means you’re determined to make them happen. And it really helps to add in smaller, more ‘short term’ goals (like just keeping on top of your blog) to keep you motivated as you work towards bigger things. It’s really admiring to voice your worries about returning to work, but I am sure you will find something perfect for you soon 🙂
    Xxxxxx

    September 3, 2017 at 8:39 am
    • Reply Bethanie Wardell

      Thank you Alice 😊 I do feel very determined just a little nervous about achieving some of them but we shall see! I think its the feeling of the unknown about work but I know a lot of people go through this! Hope you are enjoying your new job and thank you very much for reading 😊
      Xxxx

      September 3, 2017 at 8:53 am
  • Reply Muttie

    You’re quite right…. autumn is a wonderful season, full of colour and smells and changing weather – all of which helps to lift the spirit and make one feel more positive about life. Forget ridiculous new year’s resolutions… (all humbug!) and aim to start new ideas and achieve goals before the grind of winter sets in, as you say.
    I admire your attitude to confronting the job/work scenario; never underestimate yourself though and know you have achieved so far, doing one of the hardest jobs around – being a full-time parent and succeeding in nuturing and caring for, two truely wonderful children. Sadly of course, you don’t get paid for doing it! Or earn a medal or a ‘certificate’!!
    However, something will turn up… it ALWAYS does.
    Good luck for now then – you’ll get there!!

    September 3, 2017 at 9:44 pm
    • Reply Bethanie Wardell

      Thank you Muttie! If only you could get paid for being a Mum! Thank you for your inspiring words, if anyone can inspire me to work it is you. X

      September 4, 2017 at 10:03 pm

    Leave a Reply

    You may also like